12 & 13 is more of the same

By the time I hit my early teens, the line between mischief and hustle had already blurred. We weren’t just kids hanging out at Grandview Plaza anymore—we were learning how the world worked, one soda bottle and stolen snack at a time. Catholic school gave us structure, but the woods and shopping center gave us freedom. Summer camp at eleven cracked that world wide open, introducing us to kids who made us look tame. We thought we were wild, but they spoke in curse words and carried chaos like backpacks. That summer taught us more than any classroom ever could. We came home with a new vocabulary, sharper instincts, and a clearer sense of who we were. Sports kept us grounded, but the streets kept us sharp. By thirteen, I wasn’t just surviving—I was studying. Watching. Learning, running the streets.

By the time I hit sixth grade, summer camp had already sharpened my instincts and cracked open a new layer of street wisdom. Life would never be the same. I wasn’t just a mischievous kid anymore—I was evolving. That year, I got kicked out of Catholic school, and honestly, it didn’t surprise anyone. I had already started stealing bigger things. Candy bars had turned into packs of cigarettes, and the thrill of petty theft was becoming more calculated, more strategic. I wasn’t just grabbing what I wanted—I was thinking about what could be flipped, what had value, what moved fast. The innocence of childhood was fading, and the streets were starting to shape me in ways no teacher ever could.
At home, things were shifting too. My parents were getting ready to split up, and the tension in the house was thick enough to cut with a knife. We escaped the pressure by heading to the Grandview Plaza cinema, sneaking in as the crowds poured out. R-rated movies were off-limits, but that didn’t stop us. If it was good, I probably saw it five to ten times. We didn’t live boring lives, that’s for sure. We were always moving, always scheming, always chasing the next thrill. That shopping center wasn’t just a hangout—it was our playground, our classroom, our proving ground.
When the split finally happened, we were given a choice: stay with Mom or Dad. I picked whoever stayed in the house we grew up in. That ended up being my dad. He liked his beer, and after the divorce, he didn’t come home before 10 PM most nights. That gave me freedom—too much, maybe. But it also gave me space. Space to roam. Space to learn. Space to grow into the kind of kid who could read a room, dodge trouble, and stay one step ahead. The streets were teaching me faster than any classroom ever could. And I was listening. Every day was a lesson. Every night was a test. And I was passing—with scars, with stories, and with a reputation that was just beginning to take shape.

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